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The Top 5 Reasons Why Second Marriages Fail
Common sense might tell us that second marriages have a higher success rate because we’ve learned from the mistakes in our first marriage. Unfortunately, this just isn't true.

1. Let the Tug of War Begin
(Please substitute male/female where appropriate.)
The competition begins when a woman enters her second marriage, but her new husband is confused about his role in the marriage in relation to her children. He wants his new wife to make HIM the priority and the children want their mom to make THEM the priority.
This “tug of war” creates contempt and resentment leaving the woman in the middle feeling like she has to “choose a side”. It's also one of the main reasons that the second marriage divorce rate is higher than that of first marriages.
But the sad fact is; this is only HALF the battle in the “tug of war” that leads to a second divorce.

2. War of the Wives
The next part of the “tug of war” involves an ex spouse (usually a woman) who tries to get more of her ex husband’s money. Since she resents her now ex husband, she feels she’s entitled to his money because of “what he put her through”.
At the other end of the ‘rope’ is this man’s current wife. She doesn’t feel the other woman deserves any of his money because he has a new life now…with a new wife. She feels that the court-ordered money is more than enough and the ex wife is now being greedy.
What complicates this even further is when the ex wife gets remarried to a man who coaches and encourages her to go after her ex’s bank roll. After all, more money will help out HIS new household. This leaves the husband in his second marriage with not one, but TWO people conspiring against him.

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TOP 5 REASONS

The Top 5 Reasons Why Second Marriages Fail Common sense might tell us that second marriages have a higher success rate because we’ve learned from the mistakes in our first marriage.  Unfortunately, this just isn't true.

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SECRETS

Secrets, with holds, ommission and the destruction they cause. What to do when there are secrets between you and someone you care for. What do secrets really do to a relationship and how to deal with someone who continually withholds the truth from you.

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HE JUST WON'T TALK TO ME!
He just won't talk to me! This is the number one complaint of women. HERE'S THE REAL TRUTH OF WHY HE IS NOT TALKING! He just won't talk! - women's most common complaint:

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Kimile Pendleton: People, News and Events

Kimile is a regular guest on Good Things Utah, Daily Dish and Good Morning Utah News.

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Heal the Family
Heal the Family is a 501(c)3 not-for-profit dedicated to doing what our name says: healing families and family members, in the many forms that modern families can take. Whether you are married or divorced; a biological, adoptive, or step-parent; or just in a couple relationship - we're here to help. Our goal is to repair the rifts, ruptures, and psychic wounds that keep you blocked, so you can love and thrive. Our work focuses on the six key healing tools. We call them the Big Six:

1. Get Present -At Heal the Family, we don't analyze the past to death. Instead, we believe that your history, no matter how rugged and traumatic, does not automatically control you. We teach you to use your past to make a more loving and vibrant present. Result: You will finally be living in the present, as the individual and family member you've always wanted to be.

2. End Addictions - At Heal the Family, we never look at addictions as character flaws. Instead, we know they are an imperfect way to cope with problems. They numb you and take you out of your life and relationships. The latest research shows most folks can stop addiction - alcohol, drugs, gambling, sex, overeating, whatever! -- without specialized treatment. (12-Step programs may help, but are not for everyone). If there's an addiction wrecking havoc in yourself or your family, we can show you a better way to be.

3. Live With Integrity - We all want to feel good about ourselves when we look in the mirror. To do this, we must make choices we are proud of, and address the wrongs of the past. It is ironic how it's often easier to ask the Almighty for forgiveness than it is to ask another person! Heal the Family gives you the tools to live rightly, in your family and for yourself.

4. Plan It - We wouldn't build a house without a plan, or bake a cake without a recipe. While life can throw us some mighty curveballs, traveling it without a map is a road to ruin. At Heal the Family, we help you figure out where you and each member of your family is heading, and then chart the best course to get there. Then, we help you follow your plan to success in love, life, and work

5. Enroll Your World - When others take an active stake in your life, you've got more power. Heal the Family's fifth tool teaches you to enroll others in your route to your dream. Most of the time, folks are eager to help. They just haven't been asked. When you enroll others in your world, and are willing to enroll in the lives of others, it's a win-win.

6. Renew and Continue - the sixth "Big Six" tool is both the easiest and the toughest. Our goal is not just to teach you the tools, but to get them to be a part of you that's as natural as breathing.


One on One | Couple Conversations | Kid Connections | Group and Family Conversations

One on one with Kimile via phone or in person - Kimile wastes no time finding out what is blocking you from living your life's purpose. Her direct and non-judgmental approach creates rapid results and epiphany moments. Those lucky people who share time with her experience how truly gifted and remarkable Kimile is as they discover their own extraordinary nature.

Couple Conversations via phone or in person - Kimile knows each couple has a unique connection and believes there are no accidents in being together. Couples get tangled up in their past pain and superimpose that pain onto their partner which dooms the intimacy and the illusions of victim stories and unconscious dramas begin. This unspoken matrix takes on a life of its own and couples are helpless puppets to these patterns. Kimile's skill in exposing these unknown dramas reunites couples and transforms a dying love into a power connection. Renewed couples create a powerful future to live into together and become the Power Couple they were always meant to be.

Kid Connections via phone or in person - Every kid needs a confidant. Kimile provides a safe, non-judgmental space for kids to think out loud and freely express fears, heartaches, angers, hurts and confusions. Kids can relate to Kimile because she is real and has been where they are - she is not fake and speaks from experience. It is truly magical when transformation happens in a kids life and transformation happens when kids know they are fully understood.






Group or Family Conversations via teleconference or in person - Kimile is dynamic and intuitive when conversing in a group or family. Her expertise is in spotting hidden dynamics within relationships and she captivates as she reveals the secret messages that are being relayed. It is as if she is decoding the unconscious motivators that are ever present in dialog, yet they go undetected. She enjoys conversing about all subjects relationship related and has created a program for anyone who chooses to take on their life. Subjects you may be interested in are:

a. Secrets of Power Couples - Defines how to get to Power Couple Status.
b. Timeless Habits of the Sacred Feminine - Designed for women who know they are meant to heal others.
c. Real Men Don't Apologize - Designed for men who have what it takes to kill what he eats.
d. Train Him and Keep Him (men you will beg her to take this for you!)- Designed to discipline women to receive pleasure from their man and let him love her.
e. What To Do With the Rest of Your Life - Designed to create a future to live into that is an authentic expression of you.
f. It's the Water You Were Born Into - Designed for kids who are dealing with life not giving them a choice.
Book her the next time you want an unforgettable experience.


Kimile Pendleton
Kimile Pendleton is founder and president of Heal the Family and Power Coaching, Inc. She has a unique ability to tap in to the emotions and thought patterns of individuals and help them mend their history and move forward with power. Since 1989, Kimile has successfully coached and trained more than 10,000 people.
 Kimile co-founded Power Technology, Inc, a California-based coaching and training firm, and served as a trainer for Covey Leadership Center where she led seminars in 7-Habits of Highly Effective People, Time Management, and Principle Centered Leadership & Quality Spend thirty minutes with Kimile and your life will never be the same. She has a profound love for people and has a personal vision to stop people's pain and empower them to live their best life. She also brings a true love and passion for children and she creates amazing results as she "speaks their language". Your youth will truly bloom in her presence.
 Kimile is the author of Accidental Healer (currently being published), which describes her courageous escape from her kidnapper at age 5 and how she recovered from the residual emotional impact. Her misery is her ministry and she shares step-by-step how to heal yourself and your relationships. She founded Heal the Family, a non-profit business committed to transforming family relationships, causing global peace. She is a prominent speaker and gifted teacher leading courses nationally. She is a devoted mother of two and has been very active in making a difference in her family and community.

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